I think the most important thing in a relationship is trust. there has to be trust between 2 parties before any good relationship can be formed. and frankly speaking, I was disappointed with someone today.
I have ranted about this but I guess it wasn't enough and hence I have a blog post.

I think it's basic courtesy to inform. Yes, a lot of times whether the reason is legit or not is not up to us to decide, but the least you could do was to inform. Especially when we are all together in this thing. I would not have stopped you from going, but at least I should know where you are going, instead of leaving me to find out from the rest.

at the end of the day, it's not about the reason, but whether you have the heart to tell us or not.
if you don't, then it clearly shows what our relationship is like.

lack of respect, and clearly lack of trust.


okay end of rant.
I am guilty of such act of not informing properly, but then again, this time I am upset due to the situation. urgh